Mindfulness Monday ☮️ Make a Change

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Hello, Everyone!

Happy Monday and Welcome back to “Mindfulness Monday ☮️ Make a Change”  

I hope this post finds all of you well today and that you had a pleasant weekend.  I found it to be leisurely and calm.  After last week, I was quite pleased with being a lump.  LOL! I was a Pajama freak and loved every minute of it.

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Okay, maybe I didn’t quite get this carried away, but you get the gist, right?


“If you dare nothing, then when the day is over, nothing is all you have gained.”

~ Neil Gaiman – Writer


So, this week, I wanted to touch base on…


“Preventative Depressive Measures”

And… Before you question the title, yes, the answer is yes, I made this up.  I can do whatever I want on my blog, so there.  LOL! 😉  

In all seriousness though, I’d like to explore not only ideas that I have picked up along the way, but to reach out to you the readers on how you prevent or break the cycle of a depressive cycle?

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Let’s face it, those of us that suffer from depression know that once we have fallen into the abyss, feel like the key was thrown away to our own personal prisons, it’s just plain, HELL!  

Since my hospital stay, back in 2015, I have experienced four major depressive episodes and this is with being highly medicated.  Ahh… Being heavily medicated might have had something to do with it. (But, I’ll get back to that).

If you have been following me since I began my blog, you probably have been around to have witnessed two of those episodes.  The one in 2018, where I disappeared from my site entirely between September through to January 2019.  Then again, this past June through late August, at least that one, I forced myself to keep blogging.  Which by the way, was difficult, but necessary.

So the second one, so basically it means that when someone says “I love you” and you don’t feel like they do and there just saying it for there satisfaction. Right? Am I alone?

No matter how mentally tough we are, and no matter how many resources and supports we have, it’s just really hard to pull out of negative spirals once we’ve fallen into them:

  • It’s really hard to pull out of a major depressive episode once we’ve started ruminating and getting in the habit of beating ourselves up.
  • It’s really hard to break the cycle of a depressive episode once we’ve started imagining all the worst possible scenarios and outcomes.
  • It’s really hard to be loving and compassionate toward all the people we care about and them caring about us. Once we’ve thought of all the ways someone annoys us and ourselves we’re consumed by a cloud of anger and resentment.
  • It’s really hard to simply fall asleep at night once we’ve spent an hour and a half, if not more laying in bed worrying about not sleeping.

Yup!  Been there, seen that, done that, and it sucks!  

So, once we realized the obvious, now what do we do about it?

The one obvious thing and hence the name of my blog, being mindful.  By now, I think we all know what that entails.  Our brains are like a giant circuit board of over-stimulated thoughts and/or intrusive thoughts.  That’s what happens, we’re mentally ill.

Listen, Lord knows I’m not a mental health professional, you can take my advice or leave it on the steps outside your door.  But, these are a few things that have helped me jump the hurdles of a depressive cycle.

  • I want to stop worrying and thinking negatively, and focus on the positives in my life? I need to be able to gain control of my emotions and start paying attention to “What is it that is making me feel this way in particular?”
  • I want to stop picking on myself for every little mistake and guilt for feeling like this. I need to again, gain control and stay committed to my goals?  This also deserves your full and undivided attention.
  • I want to stop procrastinating and start getting real work done? I need to gain and maintain motivation.  And, yes… This includes my attention.
  • I want and need to stop ruminating on all the injustices everyone in my life spilled on me in the past.  You know what I’m going to say next… “You have tho let that shit go!”  The pent up anger, resentment, and/or envious, jealous feelings are not serving you any purpose.  It is weighing you down.


I bet too, that you’re thinking… ‘Oh, come on, Beck!  WTF? it’s not easy to just snap out of a depressive episode.’ – OR – ‘How do you know what my circumstances or situations are? It’s not just that easy to break out of this overwhelming feeling.’

… My answer to the following is, you’re absolutely correct, I don’t know what your circumstances or situations are, and I certainly don’t expect anyone, EVER to just snap out of a depressive cycle.  It doesn’t work that way.

What I am saying and trying to relay here is this:  Your Attention.  Be aware of what is happening and try to be proactive in beating it.  It’s freaking hard work, I know first hand how hard it is to fight that depressive episode tooth and nail.

As I’ve mentioned, at the beginning of June through to August, I was miserable.  I thought hard and long that I couldn’t possibly keep doing my blog, cleaning, self-care, or anything.  I really wanted to throw in the towel and say “Eff it”, I just want to stay in bed, and leave me the “Eff alone!”  But, I didn’t give up.  I paid attention to my mind, that time around.  

I forced myself to push through.  I also discussed my medications with my psychiatrist.  There is such a thing of being over-medicated and that dragging your depression into a deeper abyss.  TALK be open and honest with your doctor, tell them.  Without communication and to be honest, documenting how you feel from day to day, there is no way of your doctor knowing what is serving you and what is not.

How to Pull Yourself Out of Depression No Matter What  Learn these getting out of depression tips from a mental health professional. Take control of your life stop feeling sadness and start coming out of depression. Take these tips on overcoming depression and anxiety.

I happened to read this particular article and it makes a great deal of sense to me.  I wish I came across it over a year ago.  https://sophie-sticatedmom.com/2016/06/08/how-to-get-out-of-your-funk-and-stop-feeling-sorry-for-yourself/


Alrighty then, this concludes another week of “Mindfulness Monday ☮️ Make a Change.”  If you have additional ideas or suggestions on how to break free from a depressive episode, please feel free to share them in the comments section of this post.  You not only give me ideas, but you could help your fellow blogger that might be really having a tough go at it.

Thank you for reading!

Take Care & God Bless,

Beckie 💗


BC 2019

Credits: Pixabay, Giphy, Pinterest, and A Compendium of Wisdom, “Change Happens” compiled by Kathryn and Ross Petras



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        1. Oh, it has nothing to do with being lazy. Depression can most certainly suck the life right out of you.
          As I said, I fell off blogging for four months back in 2018. All I did was play video games from bed that entire time period.
          This past Summer, I paid attention to what was happening, and fought it. It was draining, but I literally refused to be sucked down the rabbit hole again.
          Who knows what will happen the next time. I hope and pray there isn’t a next time. 🙏

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  1. A therapist asked me how I deal with depression and I told them that when I notice that I’m lacking motivation, when I dont want to shower or change clothes or do anything … I think about that, why am I being like this? Is the Depression Monster stalking me again?
    For me, naming it helps to motivate me to change. I force myself to do something, anything. I keep forcing myself to do one thing. Sometimes it’s only changing clothes, not even a shower. Sometimes its several “one thing”s throughout the day.
    I find that if I keep moving forward, baby steps, crawling, whatever, I eventually start coming out of the fog. Sometimes just naming and recognizing the Depression Monster makes it go away. Sometimes it takes weeks or months of “one thing”.

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    1. This last ’bout with my depressive episode, my therapist asked me the same thing.
      Everything you just said here… Is basically how I replied. Plus, I added that blogging is my therapy. This was all said to her back in May. In August, I grraduated. I no longer need the therapist.
      She actually read my blog and realized how therapeutic this is for me.
      My meds are regulated and I’ve been feeling stable since August. I can always call her when needed, but for now…(Knock on wood), I’m all about here and now.
      Your “Depression Monster”, is just that. It creeps up on you when you least expet it too, but if you pay attention to the signs and really force yourself to get up… and do stuff, anything, it really does help.
      The only reason why I wrote this particular post is because I sincerely pushed myself from June to August.
      Sure, I still have trouble with the self-care routine every now and again, but compared to how I was between June-August… Huge difference.
      Baby steps, Angie… One day, one task, whatever it takes… Just getting one thing done during this time… Makes a difference.

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      1. Yep! I remember your summer struggle but you pushed through it! And maybe next summer it will be shorter or not there at all?? Baby steps and you blogging got you through the crap! You baby stepped your way back into to clear, clean air! 👣💪👏😍🤗
        My Depression Monster is an unwanted guest! I dont let it in the door if I can help it. If it does manage to sneak in, I push it out as quickly as I can.👋😂

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