How Narcissists Convince Victims They Are The Problem

Original post by”CynthiaBaileyRug” – My goodness this was what I endured in my last relationship. Sad. Great post though!!!

CynthiaBaileyRug

Narcissists have a way of making their victims feel like we are the problem.  This is awful for the victims, because as a result, we end up tolerating their abuse for years.  We think they’re good to put up with us, & we try harder & harder to be good enough for them.  Meanwhile, as we’re losing ourselves in trying to please the narcissists, the narcissists are gaining tons of supply.

So how does this happen?  How can a person honestly believe they’re the problem when the narcissist clearly is?  Narcissists accomplish this in several ways.

Projection.  Narcissist always accuse others of their own flaws.  This makes a person feel inadequate.  A person may even become angry but feels they don’t have the right to be angry since they are the flawed one.

Narcissists don’t examine their behavior, only yours.  If you’re angry with a narcissist, all that narcissist…

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